Prime

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About

Who is Prime

Professional Dominatrix in San Francisco + Beyond

Becoming Prime, a pro domina, was natural. I was forged into a leader from the beginning. As an East Coast nature girl turned West Coast tech leader, I've learned to harness power, command influence, and build new worlds. In aversion to a culture that begged me to be a good girl, I rose to become an unflinching feminine powerhouse: decisive, relentless, detail-oriented, and clear on what meets expectations, and what does not. Complementing my high standards is my ability to nurture, train, support, and build, with the empathy to equal my fierceness.

I'm not your typical boss, I'm your chosen goddess overlord who compels your service without effort.

If you're looking for a quick thrill, you're not a fit for service to Me. My practice is intentional and personal. I build scenes specific to you, your interests, curiosities, edges, and needs. I practice to make the unconscious conscious, designing for you and you alone.

I know how to drop you out of your head and submerge awareness in your body, across a range of sensation. I can turn your brain off and deliver you into a world specified for you.

What excites me in session: the sound of leather flying through the sky, cutting through air. The pink of your skin as I bring heat and awareness to the surface. Your devotion. The thud of the flogger on your body. The way you sway under the pressure. Heat. Incense. Scents of oils you were anointed with to prepare for session with Me. This is our little world. And all you do is submit, trust, and submerge.

Your gift from Me begins with the freedom of service. It ends with the afterglow of acceptance after you fall apart and I put you back together.

Outside of the dungeon, I'm a builder and explorer. I adore travelling, learning new methods for body work, leadership, play, and joy-making. I make art and enjoy extended time in nature, in fine restaurants, tending to my lean athletic physique, and trying new things. I'm a voracious learner with a curiosity that doesn't end. My commitment, in and out of the dungeon, is to build an onramp to a new way of living outside of shame, built on consent, curiosity, clear boundaries, and endless possibilities. Apply to play a part in it.

Only the disciplined and exceptional earn the privilege of My presence.

Prime - Professional Dominatrix

My Desires

Service-Oriented Play | Corporal / Impact Play

whip, flog, cane, crop, strap…beg Me to make you feel.

Crossdress \ Sissification \ Dollification

I'll make you My little girlfriend/boyfriend…what kind of little friend you are depends on you.

Roleplay

let's let our imaginations run wild… am I your domineering boss, overcome with passion? Are you My little dog that needs behavior training and care? Possibilities are endless.

Objectification \ Humiliation \ Degradation

to be put in your lowly place, and stay there, by Me is a treasure.

Bondage

cuffs, straps, rope play, mummification, sensory deprivation, gags.

Tease and Denial

you want release? Only if and when I say so…

Electroplay

shock, zap on your most sensitive areas

Sensory Deprivation | Sensory Overload

bring down your baseline energy

Fetish

latex, My beautiful feet, balloons, food, materials, etc.

Not Interested In

  • Age play
  • Race play
  • Brown (FTT) or Roman
  • High-maintenance emotional dependency
  • I do not offer body worship, massage or sexual services of any kind, so be respectful and do not ask

Apply for Submission

This application is required of all new prospective subs before any session, consultation, or correspondence is considered. Incomplete applications will not receive a response. Submission does not guarantee a session.

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Experience & Orientation

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Identity & Background Verification

your safety and Mine depend on transparency. All information is kept strictly confidential.

New subs with no references will be required to complete a paid video verification call ($25) before scheduling.

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Consent & Agreements

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I'M THE SHADOW IN THE CORNER AS YOU WAKE UP FROM DREAMING. I START BY GRADUALLY OVERTAKING YOUR MIND, FINDING YOUR DEEPEST SHADOWS, AND USING THEM, CONSENSUALLY, TO LEAD YOU DOWN THE PATHS YOU MOST FEAR, BUT ALSO MOST NEED TO EXPLORE. I'M GOING TO LEAD YOU BY THE HAND TO THE PLACE WHERE ALL THE LIGHT WAS HIDDEN BY ALL YOUR SHADOW, PILING UP, STOPPING UP LIGHT ENERGY FROM ENTERING YOUR SPACE. DIVING DEEP WITH ME IS YOUR PATH TO A NEW WAY OF LIVING, FEELING, BREATHING, THINKING. I'M YOUR BREATHING, LIVING IDEA OF POWER. BY GIVING YOUR POWER TO ME, I'M GOING TO HELP YOU REDISCOVER WHO YOU WERE, AND ARE, BEFORE THE WORLD TOLD YOU WHAT YOU COULD AND COULDN'T BE. SEE – YOU'RE MINE NOW. YOUR MIND IS MINE. YOUR BODY IS MINE. AND, THAT MAKES ME SMILE, MY MENACING GRIN.

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